- Have you ever gone through a situation where someone hurt you so much and betrayed you right in front of you?
- Have you ever felt so hurt that that episode of your life always haunt you and brings so much anger in you?
- Have you ever loved somebody so much and truthfully, and suddenly one day, without warning, that person broke your heart right after you gave so much up for that person?
- Do you think you can never ever forget all the dark memories inside your heart?
If your answers are 'yes', then I believe your heart must have really kept all those bad memories till today. You might still keep it because you can't accept what that person had done to you. Or simply because that person never came to you to apologize. There might also be some part of you that may be saying " I will never forgive you till I die". Well, the later seems a bit extreme, but very common I guess.
Humans, we have feelings. Once it is hurt, no matter due to what reason, the feelings I mentioned is very likely in us. Some hold the grudge for a long long time, some just waited till it sink in and tries to forget it.
Here's a tip for some who wants to live a happy and meaningful life. LET IT GO..simply try to let it go. Find a place in your heart, to accept what happened as life's lesson. Easy to say, I know, but I truly believe, it is a matter of choice. Trust me, you forgive AND forget, the world is better in your eyes. No more resentment in your heart. Some may say, I've tried, it's too hard. Then, TRY AGAIN. Letting go is always the best option. Holding that hatred won't bring any good, it will definitely not turn back time and change what was done. The future is much more wide for you to explore, with a free heart. Let it go. Forgive..and forget. Everything happened for a reason, and whatever happened, if you really think of it, you're always not that innocent after all. LET IT GO. Free your heart and focus on the future.The past you cannot change, but you can create a new and better future=)