Friday, January 7, 2011

Forgive you? Of course NOT!

  • Have you ever gone through a situation where someone hurt you so much and betrayed you right in front of you? 
  • Have you ever felt so hurt that that episode of your life always haunt you and  brings so much anger in you?
  • Have you ever loved somebody so much and truthfully, and suddenly one day, without warning, that person broke your heart right after you gave so much up for that person?
  • Do you think you can never ever forget all the dark memories inside your heart?

If your answers are 'yes', then I believe your heart must have really kept all those bad memories till today. You might still keep it because you can't accept what that person had done to you. Or simply because that person never came to you to apologize. There might also be some part of you that may be saying " I will never forgive you till I die". Well, the later seems a bit extreme, but very common I guess.

Humans, we have feelings. Once it is hurt, no matter due to what reason, the feelings I mentioned is very likely in us. Some hold the grudge for a long long time, some just waited till it sink in and tries to forget it.

Here's a tip for some who wants to live a happy and meaningful life. LET IT GO..simply try to let it go. Find a place in your heart, to accept what happened as life's lesson. Easy to say, I know, but I truly believe, it is a matter of choice. Trust me, you forgive AND forget, the world is better in your eyes. No more resentment in your heart. Some may say, I've tried, it's too hard. Then, TRY AGAIN. Letting go is always the best option. Holding that hatred won't bring any good, it will definitely not turn back time and change what was done. The future is much more wide for you to explore, with a free heart. Let it go. Forgive..and forget. Everything happened for a reason, and whatever happened, if you really think of it, you're always not that innocent after all. LET IT GO. Free your heart and focus on the future.The past you cannot change, but you can create a new and better future=)

3 comments:

Fir Ikhwan said...

I have a question for u, its bout ur 3rd point up there, "Have you ever loved somebody so much and truthfully, and suddenly one day, without warning, that person broke your heart right after you gave so much up for that person?" Ok, my answer for ur 3rd point there is, I can forgive tht person, I can let go the prob, but wht bout if? If one day, the person come again in our life, but in different perception or simply said, he/she have changed to a new person, should we accept & give them another opportunity?

aye-na said...

smayang istikharah..1st and foremost, u ask from Him what u should do..i myself if faced with that situation, it'll be hard to decide, but u'll knw if dat person really2 really2 have changed and not faking..giving 2nd chances is fine, but b4 u give it, dat person have to deserve that chance..if not, don't bother and move on with ur life..my own personal opinion..

Pangkah Bulat said...

sesungguhnya org yg pemaaf tu dipuji nabi.. think wisely.. =P

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